Living with Host
We are Mark and Mark - a mature gay couple offering our spare double-room for use by theatre professionals. One of us works part time front of house at the Mayflower theatre so we understand the pressures and stresses you experience when working and the long, late hours you endure.
All you need at the end of a show is to return to a relaxed environment to unwind in peace and comfort. For that reason we offer space in our quiet 1930's semi-detached, centrally-heated home located by the river Itchen in Bitterne. We choose to share our home as a way of supporting the local Arts and to meet interesting people, not to make a profit - so we don't make surcharges for laundry or energy use,
We live in a quiet cul-de-sac with no through traffic. There is a local train line at the bottom of the garden but trains are short-length, infrequent and not intrusive - they do not run overnight.
We both work from our home most of the time so are available to help with queries.
Guest Parking
Free parking is available on the road outside our house. We can also make space on our drive if preferred.
The Area and Transport
We are in the suburbs, so acknowledge we are a little further out of town than some and our room rates reflect this. We do have good transport links into the city however and can offer help and advice on the options to get to the theatres. Buses are the quickest and most convenient and there is a regular service nearby. Bus fares are capped at £2 during the day and £1 after 6pm.
A one way Uber trip to the theatre averages between £9-£14 depending on demand and time of day.
We are located between Bitterne (15 mins walk) and Woolston (20 mins walk) each has a large selection of local shops, bars and places to eat. There are a lot of green spaces nearby to relax/walk.
Included amenities
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This space is shared with 2 Hosts.
You will be living with us in our home and staying in the guest bedroom. You will have shared use of more or less the whole house ie shared bathroom, the kitchen/dining room, the garden and you are welcome to join us in the lounge/office if you so wish.
Being self-employed we both work from our home most of the time and are usually around to help with any queries etc., but are very respectful of your privacy and do not intrude unnecessarily on your space or time. That said, we are a sociable, well-traveled couple and are more than happy to sit with you in our kitchen dining room and chat over a cuppa/glass of wine as you use the kitchen, relax after a show etc.
Excluded Facilities
You will have the run of the house (apart from our own bedroom and the sewing room) and can come and go in any of the areas as you please.
What the Host is expecting from their Guests
Check-in
12:00 - 00:00
Check-out
14:00
Smokers and vapers are welcome
Strictly no pets
Overnight companions by arrangement
No allergens or intolerances to note
Other rules
Smoking only outdoors on the deck area.
What you can expect from these Digs
Strictly smoke-free
Pets are living at or visiting the property
Two hens in the garden (Wilma and Betty), and a tortoise (Fred).
No preferred dietary preferences to note
This property does not support accessibility
This property does not offer a child-friendly environment
The Host indicated the following health and safety measures.
General Sanitary and Hygiene Measures
Hand sanitiser provided
Soap for each sink provided
Check in/Check out times allow for thorough cleaning between Guests
Separate towels provided
Laminated house rules/welcome book provided
Contactless key collection
Bins are emptied and cleaned regularly
Rooms cleaned during stay (as agreed with the Guest)
Other
Non-slip mats provided
Bathroom can be ventilated
Smoke detector on every floor and in working order
All water taps have been run if left standing for a significant period of time
Property decluttered where possible
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Fire blanket or extinguisher present and in-date
Fire evacuation advice provided
Any electricals are PAT tested (if applicable)
Letting Compliance Currently there are no licence requirements for these Digs.
Gas Safety
This Host has confirmed they have a valid Gas Safety Certificate. This should be on display at the property as it is a legal requirement.
Additional visitor levies may apply. Please check visitor levies by area.
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everything about this stay was perfect. The Marks were a delight and so welcoming. Beautiful home, so stylish and comfortable. Little touches to make me feel even more welcomed and at home. I loved it!
21st Jun 2026
Thank you Pauline. It was great to meet you even if briefly. You are welcome here any time.
One of the best digs I've stayed in terms of friendliness and welcomeness. Enough parking space for vehicles and bus routes were easy and often to the theatre, and a short walk away from shops. Would happily stay again!
23rd Apr 2026
Thanks Thomas - it was lovely to meet you. Welcome back anytime!
Really enjoyed my stay with Mark(s). They were very hospitable and the room was very comfortable and at an affordable price. I enjoyed the walk but nearby transport routes make it easy to get to and from town. Would return
11th Apr 2026
Tiwai - it was good to meet you and we are so pleased you enjoyed your stay. Come back anytime!
I had such a lovely week staying with The Mark's! Both of them made me feel extremely welcome in their home. The ONLY reason I voted lower on location, is just because it's a little journey to the Mayflower. Luckily I had my car, so it wasn't an issue for me, but just flagging for others.. But overall, a truly wonderful week, and a lovely view of the river from the room! Would definitely stay again!
23rd Mar 2026
Thank-you Michael, it was such a pleasure to have you stay with us!
Great communication from ‘The Marks’. Accommodating, friendly hosts!
Easy travel into the city centre.
10th Feb 2026
Mark and Mark are excellent hosts. I received a warm welcome upon arrival, lots of local / travel tips to the theatre / town centre (very short bus ride) and the room was immaculate / has a gorgeous view of the sea. I had a very comfortable stay and I would highly recommend to other guests.
17th Nov 2025
Thank you for your review Deven, You were good company and it was lovely to meet you. Welcome back any time!
Just love these guys, and you will too.
7th Nov 2025
Thx Rushand it was great to meet you!
Mark & Mark couldn’t have been more lovely and welcoming. Lovely comfortable room too
27th Oct 2025
Thank-you Dominic - it was great to meet you!
Mark and Mark were amazing hosts and made me feel very welcome. The room was spotless and very comfortable. Thank you both for making my stay in Southampton so nice!
31st Jul 2025
Thanks Calum - was great meeting you!
I had a fabulous stay with Mark & Mark. They treated me as more than a guest and ensured I was not only well hosted but entertained as well. Couldn’t recommend higher!
18th Mar 2025
Thanks Sam, welcome back anytime you're in town!
Mark and Mark are wonderful! Such lovely hosts. The room was lovely and clean and the bed extremely comfortable. A few glasses (bottles) of wine later and lots of great conversation. An absolute top visit to Southampton. Thank you!
3rd Mar 2025
Great to meet you Harvey. Welcome back anytime!
My favorite stay of the tour so far by a mile! Mark and Mark are the most wonderful hosts, always on hand to make your stay in their lovely home feel so so comfortable. The drive in from their home is super easy (6 minutes by car) and easily commutable by bus. I will be staying with them again for sure. Thank you both, see you next time!
Rich
27th Jan 2025
Wow, thank-you Richard! We loved sharing our home with you and Pheobe. Be great to see you again.
Lovely room in a very friend house. Mark and Mark are lovely hosts, and made the stay very comfortable.
An easy drive or uber from the theatre.
Would recommend and stay again.
23rd Oct 2024
Great to meet you Victoria and you're welcome back anytime.
Had a really lovely stay with Mark & Mark!
The room was nice, the view was amazing, and the company was brilliant. Wouldn’t hesitate to be right back there if I found myself in Southampton once more. Was a shame only to stay the one night. Hopefully more! All the love, Mark (3)
10th Sep 2024
It was great to meet you Mark. Assured a welcome here anytime.
What a stay! Mark and Mark are utterly amazing hosts. I had a perfect stay here. We shared a few glasses of wine and chatted into the small hours on occasion. The room is very peaceful, the view is also very peaceful, looks out onto the water. I highly recommend staying here , and I for sure will be back!
You guys really know how to look after your guests. Thank you a million times over , Jamie xx
19th Jul 2024
You were the ideal guest and we loved sharing our home with you! Come back anytime.
Things to do in Southampton should include meet the two Marks. Kind, friendly, thoughtful, fun. Such wonderful people and hosts. A safe ,welcoming & comfortable stay. Would definitely stay again.
28th Apr 2024
Thank you Sharlene. It was our pleasure. You're welcome anytime.
Had a lovely week with Mark and Mark. Communication was great and the room was comfortable with a lovely view across the reserve. The walk to the theatre is long but pleasant so wasn’t a bother to me. Otherwise the buses are very easy to get to the theatres. Would happily stay again.
3rd Apr 2024
Thank-you Francis.. we're pleased you enjoyed your stay; you were a great guest.
Thanks for being so welcoming and helpful, room is great, will definitely be in touch next time I'm in Southampton....!
11th Feb 2024
Thanks Gavin. We hope to welcome you again sometime.
Genuinely one of the best stays I've had. Mark and Mark are not only very friendly and accommodating hosts, but also truly understand the theatre life, late nights and all. The room is superb (I'm a big fan of the period aesthetic) all the information on the area, the hosts etc are in a handy folder in your room, but Mark and Mark are on hand to ask any questions. Truly a fantastic stay, I'm only sad it was only one night! This distance from venues is more than made up for by the price. Book!
25th Oct 2023
Wow. Thanks Callum for such an appreciative review.... you were a great guest!
Great digs with friendly and accommodating hosts. Would recommend particularly if you're happy being a little further from the theatre (30-40 minutes via bus to the mayflower). Thank you for a lovely stay!!
9th Oct 2023
So glad to hear you enjoyed your time with us Simon. It was great to meet you and you're assured a warm welcome should you ever return to Southampton!
Location is a plus and minus, we enjoyed the trips into town, this minor issue is more than outweighed by the superb accommodation.
25th Sep 2023
Glad you enjoyed your time with us Steve, we enjoyed meeting you both and you were very relaxed company.
Perfect digs. Thanks for having me!
17th Sep 2023
Cheers Charlie, you're welcome. Was great to meet you - come back anytime.
Fantastic hosts, so accommodating and very knowledgeable of the area! Would definitely stay here again!
3rd Sep 2023
Thank-you Ellie, you were a very considerate guest and we loved having you stay with us! Come back anytime.
I had the best stay with Mark and Mark and was welcomed so warmly into their home. They’re so kind and understanding of theatre life, and were very accommodating. Lovely art deco design room with a nice view over the river in a really peaceful area.
15th Jul 2023
Thank you Rose, it was our absolute pleasure to have you come stay in our home and we enjoyed your time with us very much. We hope to see you again. Mark and Mark x
Had a lovely stay with Mark and Mark! Very welcoming and informative. Comfy bed in a quiet location. Great transport links to the Mayflower. Definitely recommend!
1st May 2023
Thank-you Blair, you were a charming and considerate guest - it was great having you in our home and you're welcome back at any time!
Mark and Mark are absolutely amazing! Their house is stunning in style, organised, warm and super tidy. Short bus journey from town. They both were extra helpful and warm welcoming. I had a great stay with best views from my bedroom and lounge.
3rd Feb 2023
It was such a pleasure to share our home with you Rimante, We're delighted you enjoyed your time with us. You were a perfect guest and are welcome back at any time!
Lovely room in a beautiful house. I personally found it very convenient to get to the MAST Studios, as I took my car and drove every day. Great view from the house over the river and some lovely walks nearby. Mark and Mark are wonderful hosts too
26th Dec 2022
Thank-you Jane, it was a joy to host you in our home. You were such effervescent company & we’d be happy to welcome you back anytime.
Absolutely lovely stay, while it's a little far from the theatre, it was totally worth it and Would happily stay again
28th Nov 2022
Thank-you for your review Eiriol, so glad you enjoyed your stay with us - you were a great guest!
Mark and Mark were enormously accomodating to me, especially since I'm still recovering from covid. The loveliest couple, and understand the theatre world (odd hours etc), I enjoyed the Bake Off catch-up! The room is cosy, and I really felt at home.
21st Nov 2022
Thanks Nat for a great review, you were an ideal guest and we loved having you stay with us. We really appreciated the way you kept us informed of your plans prior to arrival. Come back anytime!.
I had a wonderful week with Mark and Mark - very friendly and welcoming. I also got fed a few times too which was lovely! The view from my room is gorgeous - every morning I would gaze out - lovely way to start the day! I would certainly recommend! X
31st Oct 2022
Thanks Stewart, it was a pleasure to have you stay with us. You were good company and a great guest. Come back anytime.
It was my absolute pleasure staying with mark and mark. They were so friendly and helpful and went beyond out of their to make me feel comfortable. The house is very cosy and really enjoyed the porch. I would definitely stay again.
18th Oct 2022
Tevin it was such a pleasure for us to share our home with you - our first TheatreDigs guest - you were fantastic company and we would welcome you back at anytime.
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